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4 Vital Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage Against Satan’s Attacks

Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it is also a prime target for the enemy. Many couples start strong, only to find themselves struggling under the weight of life, misunderstandings, and spiritual battles. Have you ever felt like forces beyond your control were working against your relationship? You’re not alone.

Before I got married, I often heard people say, “The devil is after marriages.” I thought they were exaggerating. But after 12 years of marriage, I now understand. The enemy is relentless in trying to tear apart what God has joined together. If you’ve been experiencing struggles in your marriage, it’s time to fight back.

Here are four vital ways to protect your marriage from spiritual attacks.

1. Pray for Your Marriage

Jesus warned Peter that Satan wanted to sift him like wheat, but He also revealed the key to victory: prayer.

“Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail.” (Luke 22:31-32)

Satan wants to sift marriages as well. The best defense is to cover your relationship in prayer.

Prayer invites God into your marriage. It dismantles the enemy’s plans and strengthens your bond. Paul reminds us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). That means your spouse is not the enemy—Satan is.

Make it a habit to pray daily for:

Unity and peace in your home
Strength to overcome temptations
Protection against misunderstandings
Love, patience, and forgiveness

Poll: How often do you pray for your marriage?

Daily
Weekly
Occasionally
Rarely

2. Fight Against Drifting Apart

Drifting apart doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a slow fade. It happens when life gets busy, stress takes over, and connection takes a back seat. Jesus emphasized the unity of marriage:

“So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)

Many couples assume that if they aren’t fighting, their marriage is fine. But emotional distance can be just as damaging as conflict.

To stay connected:

Prioritize date nights and quality time.
Explore hobbies or activities together.
Communicate openly about your needs and struggles.
Stay physically and spiritually intimate.

The enemy thrives in disunity. Make an intentional effort to protect your bond before distance sets in.

Quiz: What is your love language? (Take the quiz and discuss with your spouse.)

3. Meet Your Spouse’s Needs

Many people enter marriage expecting their needs to be met, but few understand their spouse’s needs. Paul reminds us:

“Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:4 BSB)

Men and women often have different emotional and physical needs. According to Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., author of His Needs, Her Needs, here are the top five needs:

Men:

Sexual fulfillment
Recreational companionship
An attractive spouse
Domestic support
Admiration

Women:

Affection
Conversation
Honesty and openness
Financial support
Family commitment

When spouses fail to meet each other’s needs, frustration and temptation grow. The enemy will use unfulfilled needs as an opportunity to introduce discontentment and even infidelity. The solution?

Ask your spouse what they need and be intentional about meeting those needs.

Survey: What is the biggest need in your marriage right now?

More communication
More quality time
More intimacy
More spiritual connection

4. Avoid Comparing Your Spouse

Comparison is a silent killer of marriage. Social media often shows picture-perfect couples, making you feel like your relationship is lacking. But the Bible warns us:

“But godliness with contentment is great gain.” (1 Timothy 6:6)

When you compare your spouse to someone else, you diminish their value in your eyes. This can lead to resentment, emotional distance, or even seeking emotional connections outside of your marriage.

Remember:

No marriage is perfect, no matter how it looks online.
Your spouse is a gift from God, uniquely made for you.
Focus on building your marriage, not envying someone else’s.

If you’ve been struggling with comparison, take a step back and count the blessings in your marriage. Gratitude can shift your perspective and strengthen your bond.

Strengthen Your Marriage Today

Satan will always try to attack what God has ordained, but you are not powerless. When you commit to prayer, fight against drifting apart, meet your spouse’s needs, and reject comparison, you build a marriage that can withstand any storm.

Which of these steps do you need to focus on most? Take action today and fortify your marriage against the enemy’s attacks.

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