Ask God Honestly: Building a Real Relationship with Him
We All Feel
Have you ever bowed your head to pray and felt unsure what to say? Many Christians wrestle with guilt, fear, or hesitation when asking God for help. We wonder if our prayers are too small, too selfish, or too bold. As a Christian writer who has walked through seasons of doubt, I understand how heavy that silence can feel. Yet here’s the truth: God actually invites us to ask Him honestly.
Why God Wants You to Talk With Him
First, let’s remember who God is. Jesus made a way for us to have a restored relationship with our Heavenly Father. Because of this, prayer is not just a religious act, it’s a personal conversation. Just as a child talks to their parent, we can come to God with our needs, questions, and concerns.
Furthermore, Scripture assures us that God listens. In Matthew 7:7, Jesus says, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” God is not hiding. He wants to be found by those who seek Him.
The Power of Honest Prayer
So why do we hold back? Often, we feel guilty asking God for something. We might believe our requests are too small or insignificant. But here’s the good news: God cares about the details of our lives. If it matters to you, it matters to Him.
Imagine a child tugging on their father’s sleeve to ask for help. No loving father would dismiss that request. In the same way, God desires for us to come to Him, even with the smallest needs.
However, we must also trust His wisdom. Just as an earthly father won’t give a child something harmful, God won’t grant us what will ultimately hurt us (Matthew 7:10-11). Honest prayer is not about demanding what we want but trusting Him with what we need.
How to Build a Habit of Asking God Honestly
To strengthen your prayer life, try these simple steps:
-
Be Real – Speak to God like you would to a close friend. Use your own words.
-
Be Consistent – Set aside a few minutes daily to connect with Him.
-
Be Expectant – Trust that He hears you and will respond in His perfect way.
-
Be Rooted in Scripture – Let the Bible guide your prayers and give you confidence.
Over time, you’ll notice your relationship with God grow deeper, more natural, and more powerful.
✨ Interactive Moment: Quick Reflection Quiz
Take this short quiz to reflect on your prayer life:
-
Do you hesitate to ask God for small things?
-
☐ Yes
-
☐ No
-
-
Do you sometimes feel guilty about your prayer requests?
-
☐ Yes
-
☐ No
-
-
Do you believe God truly listens when you pray?
-
☐ Always
-
☐ Sometimes
-
☐ Rarely
-
Your answers can help you see where you might need to grow in asking God honestly.
Keep Asking, Keep Trusting
In conclusion, God is not distant or disinterested. He is a loving Father who wants you to come to Him openly. So today, don’t hold back. Tell God what’s on your heart. Share your needs, your worries, and your hopes.
As you do, trust Him to answer in ways that align with His love and wisdom. The more you practice honest prayer, the more you will see God’s presence and power at work in your daily life.
👉 Poll for Readers:
How do you usually approach prayer?
-
I’m very honest with God
-
I hold back my real feelings
-
I struggle to know what to say
Please subscribe to our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@PossibilityPluspm for inspiring videos